my declaration of independence

IndependenceDay

i declare my independence from self-deprecating humor that’s used only as a non-threatening tool designed to subjugate myself so that others might listen to what i have to say. i pledge my allegiance to using my true, authentic voice, trusting that even when using my native language of humor, i will clearly express what i’m experiencing.

i declare my independence from the stories i’ve conjured or constructed or otherwise bought into, using them to protect me or aggrandize me. i pledge allegiance to birthing and living fresh, new stories that truthfully portray who i am now and who i want to become.

i declare my independence from living as though if i can do it, it is of no value. i pledge my allegiance to knowing (and living, accordingly) that the tasks i tend to regularly, and the things i create, have value and sometimes – every now and then – that value is expressed in terms of money.

i declare my independence from the notion that doubt is always and categorically a bad thing. and i pledge allegiance to give doubt a voice, a chance to be heard, realizing that sometimes doubt has much to say that i need to hear.

i declare my independence from the need to always present as positive and perky. upbeat. i pledge my allegiance to honesty, to risk revealing the lows and less-thans, trusting that doesn’t enkindle an irrepressible need-to-fix response from others.

i declare my independence from planning something right out of existence before ever getting started. and i hereby pledge allegiance to trusting my lizard brain more often.

2 Comments

  1. Elizabeth

    I’m not ready to be free of my self-deprecating humor, but one of these days… 🙂 I so love this declaration of independence. “i declare my independence from planning something right out of existence before ever getting started.” That one I WILL borrow because I very nearly beat a story I dreamed out of existence last night when I stopped trusting it and starting questioning everything about it. Happy Independence Day, Jeanne.

  2. Alana

    Now THAT is a declaration of independence worth living by. Happy (belated) independence day ms jeanne.

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